Kissing Frogs & Other Things That Chase Away Your SoulMate And Keep You Single

Kissing Frogs and Other Things That Chase Away Your SoulMate And Keep You Single

Kissing Frogs & Other Things That Chase Away

Your SoulMate And Keep You Single

Ladies, this is a time when many of us are focusing on the romantic love we share, or lamenting over the lack of it.


Join Relationship Expert Wende Sanders, M.S. during this free workshop for Women of Faith, which promises to be informative, enlightening and fun!

Whether your relationship status is single, “it’s complicated,” or anything else this content rich workshop will be beneficial to you.


During this No Cost Event, you’re going to discover:

* The #1 mistake women make when they’re single to sabotage their happiness & relationships

* The most important practice a single woman hoping to be married MUST do first

* How your environment can either Help or Hinder your Romantic Prospects

* How you can begin Attracting your SoulMate and preparing for a Happy, Life-long marriage


Comments from previous Workshop Attendees:

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NOTE: Beloved, go ahead, CLICK HERE and reserve your seat NOW, while it’s fresh on your mind (and there is still space available). Then, add it to your calender and invite your friends. I look forward to seeing you soon! I’d love to help you make 2014 the year you Stop Kissing Frogs and Attract the LOVE of Your Life!

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Finish Strong

Finish StrongThis time of year, many of us tend to put on the “cruise control” and kind of coast into the New Year. Please, don’t do that. The time we’re gifted with is so precious, and we owe it to ourselves to utilize every moment of it. I’d like to share my tips to help you to finish out the year in a way that positions you to “knock it out of the park” in the New Year, and experience the phenomenal life, love & success you desire (not to mention more confidence because you have a plan that works)!

Use lessons learned to propel you forward

It’s the year’s end, and for sure you’ve learned a lot about what worked well for you this year, as well as what did not. Sometimes our life lessons come wrapped in the guise of “failure” or “disappointment,” and we must brush off the dirt and find a way to move forward with our dignity and our faith intact. A wise women builds her home, while a foolish woman tears hers down with her OWN hands. And wisdom is earned as we learn from both our successes and perceived failures. Allow the wisdom acquired to propel you forward to fulfill the Vision that God has placed within you.


Begin with the end in mind

The first time I learned of this concept was when I read Steven Covey’s book, 7 Habits of Highly Successful People. Although we are at the end of the current year, we have a whole new year that is approaching, Gw. And, it’s full of possibilities for us to pursue; potential for us to realize. The question is, how do we make the most of it? That’s where this concept comes into play.

I encourage you to schedule an appointment with yourself, so you can take a few moments to determine where you want to be this time next year. (If you use The Phenomenal Lifestyle Design Planner, my 1st book, there’s a dedicated section just for this purpose. ) Whether you use the New Year, your birthday, the fiscal year or some other date as your set point for beginning and ending cycles, it’s important to make these assessments. 1) Knowing that there is indeed an end, 2) being clear on what you want to be, do and have when you get there, and 3) then starting down a path that will get you there is essential.

As you close out 2013, and bring in 2014 are your actions and internal dialog moving you closer toward that Vision? If not, that MUST change. Otherwise, one year from now your life (fitness, relationships, finances, etc.) will likely be exactly the same as it is today, or worse.


Remember your Vision, and allow it to be your “North Star”

If the lessons you’ve learned are the fuel for your success, your Vision serves as your destination. The scripture says, without a vision people will perish. God knows that we absolutely NEED to be moving toward something that’s better than where we are (even if we think where we are is pretty cool). If you’ve completed my recommendation from the previous section, then you have a Vision. Now is the time to allow it to inspire you to pursue purposeful action. Permit it to motivate you during “slow seasons,” and always submit it to God for His Blessing and Assistance.

If you know that you want to experience MORE and Better in 2014, I invite you to join me on Tuesday, December 17 for my FREE Webinar “3 Keys to Maximize 2014, Starting Now.” During this complimentary, content-rich training, I will address 3 of the top areas that cause phenomenal women to struggle, (money, love & health) and outline specific solutions that you can implement right away. Register now, while it’s on your mind, at

3 Keys to Maximize 2014, Starting Now

PLM Free Webinar 2013

How to accelerate your success in Wealth, Health, and Relationships, so you can stop pretending and enjoy the Phenomenal Life of your dreams


It’s here, it’s here!!! Last week, I told you about the webinar I’ve been planning for you. And now, it’s here.

This complimentary training webinar is for you if:

  • You want 2014 to be better, more productive & happier than this year was (and you don’t know how to make that happen)
  • You set New Year’s resolutions or goals each year, then abandon them before Valentine’s Day rolls around
  • You just want someone to show you the simplest way to experience a Phenomenal Life without making it feel so difficult

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As the New Year approaches, many of us are assessing our personal and professional results from 2013. If you’re like me, you’re also planning your goals and vision for 2014. But, sometimes we have goals that we’d like to reach, but don’t have any idea of how to reach them, or we could just use some extra accountability to maintain the momentum. That’s where I come in. The “Maximize 2014, Starting Now” Free Webinar Training is designed to cover the areas in which many of us struggle, Money, Health & Relationships.

In fact, I heard a preacher say that these are the top 3 prayer requests he receives. So, it was natural that these would be the areas I’d choose to cover in this end of year training, to help set you up for success as you close out this year and move into the next. We’ve been clearly instructed to renew our minds, and to seek knowledge from the cradle to the grave; but, sometimes you just may not know how. That’s why I’m gifting you this Webinar training, all you need to do to claim it, is to register by completing the form below.

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When you join me on the live Webinar, you will:

  • Discover the hidden saboteur that will keep you financially stuck, no matter how much money you earn (it’s why most people struggle with money even after earning big promotions and raises)


  • Identify 3 “Health Foods” that could be preventing you from losing unwanted weight, and leaving you feeling miserable (this totally changed the quality of my life, and that’s putting it mildly)


  • Explore 6 things with the power to either Destroy or Nourish your most cherished relationships (not knowing these can set you on a downward spiral of broken relationships and leave you always wondering “What went wrong?”)


  • How you can get your hands on everything it takes to maximize your life in 2014 and finally experience the phenomenal life, love and happiness you crave (Not knowing these valuable lessons sooner caused me to waste precious time, but I’m going to teach them to you so you can quickly learn from my mistakes.)


Don’t worry if you can’t join me live. As long as you’re registered, you’ll get the recording of the call so you can still benefit from this valuable training. But, if you want the visuals too, you’ve gotta join me live.

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Coming Soon- Free Webinar to Help You Start 2014 With a Bang!

If we’re connected on Facebook, you may have seen my recent post about my Aunt passing unexpectedly (Thanks again for your prayers and support). woman on stairs- sadThank God, I’m doing much better now than I was earlier this week. But, after I came out of the initial shock of this news (she was only 21 years old), I started to reflect on my own life and whether I’m doing EVERYTHING I can to walk out my Assignment before I’m called Home.

I came to the conclusion that I can do more; there are many more women that God has called me to help. That’s what lead me to offer this no cost webinar in a few days (originally it was planned for later next year).

I once heard a preacher say that the most common prayer requests he receives are for:

  1. Finances/Money
  2. Health
  3. Relationships

That’s very easy for me to believe, because those are the areas that I help Clients with the most. They’re also the areas that I hear other people complain about the most. So guess what topics I’ll be covering in this F R E E webinar?

If you guessed the 3 areas listed above, ding, ding, ding, we have a winner! This webinar is designed to help you overcome the most common lifestyle problems phenomenal women face. Incidentally, these are also among the top New Years resolutions or goals. This Monday, 12-9-13, I’ll be sending out the link to register for the webinar, so be on the look out. When you register & join me for this info packed webinar, you will have what you need to immediately get into action in these vital areas. With the training I provide here, you can finish 2013 Strong and start your 2014 New Year with a Bang!

Remember- Look for an email from me on Monday, December 9 with the link to register for this upcoming complimentary webinar. Life is so precious, I can’t wait to share with you the strategies I’ve learned to maximize these areas of my life.

3 Ways to Know If You Are in Denial?

Have you been “faking the funk” for so long that you don’t know what it feels like to be genuinely happy and fulfilled in certain aspects of your life? If any of these touches a sore spot, you may be guilty as charged. But no cause for alarm, because “now you know, and knowing is half the battle.” 🙂

Im Not in Denial

Here are 3 ways to easily identify if you are currently in denial over your situation:


1.  You know you need help to get unstuck, or to go to the next level, yet you don’t take sufficient action to get you to the level you say you desire. When an athlete decides she wants to become an Olympian, she doesn’t settle for the volunteer coach at the local community center, since it’s free. No, she hires a professional coach that has the knowledge and experience to help her achieve her goals.

2.  You’re so used to lying to yourself, that you don’t even know what the truth is anymore. Look, being optimistic is fabulous, and so is speaking those things that “are not,” as though they are. But, those are different than straight up lying to yourself. Some of the most frequent lies I hear women tell themselves are:

  • “I’m too old for…” or “I’m getting too old to…” (God can bless you with anything at any age, no matter the season. But, are you doing your part to prepare for what you say you want.)
  • “I can’t afford it” (You know that’s a lie because where a woman’s treasure lies, there lies her heart. The treasure says, “I can afford it, I just prefer to spend on a temporary rush, than to invest in my personal growth and development.” Hence #3)

3.  You rely on “Travel or Retail Therapy” to get a reprieve from the emptiness & sadness, and provide a temporary high or distraction. When taking this route, the problem has NOT been addressed & resolved, so it’s still there when you return from your trip, or once the “new stuff” scent wears off. Plus, often these approaches lead to bad debt and falling out of Financial Integrity (one of the 9 Pillars of a Phenomenal Lifestyle).

When I’m a guest speaker at various no cost or low cost events, like Women’s Empowerment events, I frequently meet women that share with me their life & relationship struggles and goals. Then, they acknowledge that they don’t know how to realize their goals. When I share with them that I can help, all too often they start with, “The way my bank account is set up…” That’s when otherwise smart and capable women of faith start to fall into #2 by lying to themselves and making excuses to not equip themselves with the tools to uplevel their lives and relationships. Inside they know it’s time to take advantage of a professional coach who can show them a short cut to life & relationship success.

If you tell yourself “It’s all good. I’m fine.” But deep down you know it’s not true, it’s time to make a change. If you’re sick of having “stuffitis,” of traveling the globe trying to outrun the emptiness inside, it’s time to try something different. If you know that you frequently get what you pay for, and free just ain’t cuttin’ it, then upgrade your results by upgrading your investment in yourself. An committed investment in yourself will ALWAYS yield a return on investment (ROI). If you’re ready to being working with a experienced Life Coach with a proven track record, take advantage of the BIGGEST SALE I’ve ever had, before the discount code expires. Remember, the code to be entered in the checkout cart is gratitude50.

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I’ve learned directly from some of the TOP leaders in Personal Development! This was taken after a Live Training with Best-Selling Author Jack Canfield.

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