10 Must Haves To Set Yourself Up For A Fierce Year!
2018 Success Prep Kit for
a Fierce Year:
Remember these top 10 aspects of your personal development and you will empower yourself to have a Fierce year & a Phenomenal Lifestyle.
10. Assess the previous year, or the current status of things
9. Focus on building a solid Foundation
8. Develop a Plan & Strategy that includes Accountability (ie. Professional Coach)
7. Take Action on your plan
6. Establish stretch Goals
5. Make Decisions that align with your goals & ideal outcomes
4. Form Beliefs that support positive experiences
3. Renew your Mindset to be Growth-oriented, not Fixed
2. Start with a sincere, positive Intention
The #1 Thing You Need to Create a Fierce Year is...
1. Have a Clear Vision of the Life, Career, Business, Body, Relationships you want to create for yourself
Join me on Saturday, January 13, 2018 for the “Create Your Fierce Life! 2018 Vision Board Playshop & Plan-a-thon”
Livestream option available
I'd love to help you plan & prep for a Fierce & Phenomenal You!
Learn More & Register at www.FierceU.com
Join me for a Vision Board Playshop & Plan-a-Thon for 2018
Livestream & In-Person Options Available: Intentionally Manifest Your Dream Life
A Vision Board is an effective way to manifest your dream life. Seeing this board each day aligns your brain with the outcomes you most want to attract & create. (Oprah, Ellen Degeneres, and more swear by Vision Boards!)
It sounds pretty simple. (And yes, there is a process to make your Vision Board more powerful.)
I’ve created numerous Vision Boards (and manifested some amazing results, including getting promotions, attracting my SoulMate, getting pregnant after trying for years, and more)! And, my experience has shown me that it takes more than just slapping a picture onto a poster board.
It’s about first getting clear on your authentic desires, and letting go of what’s in the way. That’s why on January 13, 2018, I’m leading this unique Create Your Fierce Life! 2018 Vision Board Playshop & Plan-a-thon. It's a full-day immersion for you to focus on your authentic life, core clarity, ideal outcomes, and a plan of action to bring them all to life.
I provide EVERYTHING you’ll need! Bring yourself, and maybe a friend!
A Full-Day Immersion To Focus On Your Authentic Identity, Life And Your Ideal Results
Here’s what you’ll get, when you join us:
- Clarity on what you REALLY want & WHO you want to BE (No more settling for someone else’s dreams)
- Space and Time to map out your ideal outcomes in each area of your life
- Plan of Action to Achieve your Goals & sustain the MOMENTUM we create during the Playshop
- Connection with like-minded peers
- A method to clear out the natural “gunk” that arises (Time to RELEASE it)
- All the tools and time to create your own powerful Vision Board or Identity Board (You don’t have to bring a thing, unless you attend via Livestream, of course. I’ve got ALL the materials you need right in the room!)
- Your own Vision Board to take home and attract your ideal outcomes in the months ahead
- A full day of Breathing Room and Dream-Time (The very thing you keep telling yourself you’ll give yourself but never do!)
You asked & I answered, YES!!! I’ve added a Livestream Virtual Ticket option!!! So you can still attend even if you’re not in the area.
Would you like to join me? Click here for more info, and to get your ticket.
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Although the in-person experience of this event will take place in Greensboro, NC, the virtual experience can be had from anywhere.
She can attend via Livestream, even if she's on the other side of the country, or the world!
My Journey to 40
Preparing for 40
I had just turned 39 years old and I was already thinking about turning 40. "Had I accomplished the things I wanted to accomplish by 40? Was I the type of woman I wanted to be at 40? Had I learned from the stupid mistakes of the past? Was I giving myself credit for my successes?"
I’d started the countdown to turning 40, and I was doing a ton of personal reflection. There were certain life and career goals that I’d nailed, and others that I tanked (in my own mind). But I learned and grew from them all.
Disappointment
One of the biggest disappointments that I faced on this journey, was the realization of how much I’d held myself back from fully showing up in my own life. Part of it was “programing” that 'good girls' don’t call attention to themselves, it’s better to not really be seen. 'Righteous women' are too humble to acknowledge their God-given greatness, to do so would be interpreted as arrogance. And, 'shining your light' means being less than a 'good Believing woman', because again you really shouldn’t be seen. Believing those things most of my life left me always feeling that I couldn’t fully shine or show up the way I really wanted to show up in my life.
All the while, I truly admired the women that I saw who did shine brightly; I thought they were FIERCE! And I secretly wanted to be Fierce too.
Empowerment
Well, thank God, that this journey to 40 empowered me to release that “stinkin’ thinkin’,” and jump into becoming the woman that I truly want to be! Because, since then I’ve been able to transform several areas of my life for the better!
It’s important for me share the wealth, and empower more women to experience the transformation that I’m enjoying in my life. That’s why I created the “Fiercely Reinventing You” brand, why I wrote this "Fiercely Reinventing Your Life: Get Started Guide", and why I’m offering it to you for free.
Paying It Forward
I know that everyone will not be able to hire me to work with them 1-on-1, and everyone won’t sign up for one or more of my workshops and online courses. But, I do want everyone to be able to start down the path of personal transformation and striving to live your BEST life. It’s what I call living a Fierce and Phenomenal Life!
So, hopefully this “glimpse behind the curtain” will help you to see why personal transformation is so important to me, why I have enjoyed coaching others to success, enjoyed being coached myself, and why I wrote this eBook for women like you and me.
If you know that although things are good right now (and from the outside looking in people think your life is great) but things could be even better. If you know that you want to stop holding yourself back, and you want to give yourself permission to really be as FIERCE as you desire to be, then you want to get your hands on this 14 page Guide. It's called "Fiercely Reinventing Your Life: Get Started Guide". You can get it at www.FiercelyReinventingYou.com
I'd love to hear how you use it to start transforming your own life!
The Making of a Queen
“The young queen larva develops differently because it is more heavily fed royal jelly, a protein-rich secretion from glands on the heads of young 
workers. If not for being heavily fed royal jelly, the queen larva would have developed into a regular worker bee. All honey bee larvae are fed some royal jelly for the first few days after hatching but only queen larvae are fed on it exclusively. As a result of the difference in diet, the queen will develop into a sexually mature female, unlike the worker bees.”
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queen_bee
A Queen feeds on substances that support her Divine role and Destiny.
So her Spiritual food makes her more of who she was Created to be; it empowers her to remain Encouraged. It reminds her of her Divine Assignment and the Most High God she serves. She proudly serves the King of Kings.
Her Physical food energizes and equips her with needed stamina. It nurtures her body temple, and prepares it to give birth to new life and better futures; it does not weaken her, slow her down, or cause her harm.
Her Mental food informs her, uplifts her, cultivates and sustains the Wisdom and Discernment needed to humbly serve God’s Kingdom, as ONLY she can.
Others also had access to the Queen-making substance that nourished this Queen. Yet, they stopped short. They fell short in continuing the practices that would lead to a Queenly transformation.
Yes, a Queen started out from the same humble stock as everyone else. It was only what she consumed and absorbed that lead to her royal transformation.
Identity Crisis
It’s quite unfortunate that so many females have apparently forgotten who they are. Separated from their true identity, they are not ladies, or even women, and they’re nowhere near becoming Queenly; they’re just females who suffer from an identity crisis. They live their lives in ways that bring them disgrace, and secret misery. They are jealous and scornful toward women who DO know who they are, women who own their divine identity and are living well, while striving for better.
Because she doesn’t know who she is, she answers to names and titles that are beneath her. This female is ill equipped. She’s ill equipped to live a Phenomenal Lifestyle™, to walk in her purpose, to recognize her King, or to successfully battle the enemy. Thus, she is even more vulnerable to destruction. She shares her body and her soul with the enemy and calls it love.
No, she doesn’t know what LOVE is, so she settles for a copy of a shadow of an illusion, which she calls “love“.
When that “feeling” ends, she moves on to find “love” elsewhere. Until, she has allowed dozens of jesters to abandon their seeds of lust in her treasure trove, and yet… she STILL feels empty. Unless she Awakens to her divine identity and becomes Conscious, this female will remain deplete of the Life-sustaining force with which she started her Journey. Her divine fitrah, the God-conscious nature that was planted inside her before her very birth, is the key to accessing the mystery she craves to solve.
Yet she knew not, because she never knew WHO SHE WAS. WHO SHE IS. WHO SHE CAN BE.
Know that it’s never too late to return to your natural, divine identity, and resume your place in God’s Kingdom. It all STARTS with knowing “WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?”
5 Signs You Are Thirsty
I recently had a moment of clarity in which I realized that I had been truly thirsty regarding a certain situation. This realization was at first quite embarrassing, who wants to admit that she suffers from thirst i.e. desperation?
However, once I realized the reality of my circumstance, I was able to readjust and rearrange myself such that I could approach the situation differently.
From my revelation I have determined 5 ways to know if you too are being thirsty in some area of your life.
1. You settle for less than what you know you deserve, and less than what you actually want.
For example, you settle for living together or just being boyfriend and girlfriend when what you actually want is marriage.
2. You don’t feel good about yourself when you think about that situation or person.
For example they make you feel like something is wrong with you, or you are not good enough.
3. You forget just how awesome & Phenomenal you actually are.
You may get caught up feeling that you need to prove yourself, in order to be worthy or accepted.
4. You are willing to violate your values and principles in order to be accepted or approved by this person.
You know that there are certain healthy boundaries you should set and maintain, yet you disregard them in order to be accepted.
5. You give someone else the power to dictate your value and your worth based on their opinion and their demonstration of acceptance.
You’re worth was established by your Creator. No one else has the power to dictate it unless you personally give them that power. A woman who is connected with who she truly is, her God-given self, knows to never give away such power and authority. Doing so is more than a sign of desperation and thirst, it’s an indication of an identity crisis. To give away the power to dictate your worth as a woman is an indication that you don’t know who you are or Whose you are. And that MUST be corrected!
“You Are Beautiful” Children’s Book by Robyn Z. Abdusamad
I’m SO excited about the newly released book for girls called, You Are Beautiful! I routinely work with adult women who need to receive this very message.
So, I’m MORE than happy to support the efforts of my dear friend Robyn Abdusamad, the author of this book and another called, Wahid and His Special Friend.
About the Book:
You Are Beautiful tells the story of two young sisters who experience their first encounter with racial prejudice, and who are saddened by what they hear.
Throughout the course of the story they overcome intolerance, and realize the beauty of ethnic diversity and true friendship.
This book highlights the importance of countering ignorance with knowledge and kindness.
Which special girls in your life are you ready to bless with this encouraging and beautifully illustrated book? Consider getting multiple copies, as this makes a GREAT gift.
Here’s the link to get it today.
https://www.wendesanders.com/Amazon-You-Are-Beautiful
About the Author
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Last Week of Registration for the 2014 Women’s Retreat
This is a Heads Up to let you know that the Registration for the Smart, S.E.X.Y. & Single Women’s Retreat ends in 1 week, on Sunday night Nov. 2 at 11:59 pm EST.
The Clock is ticking!
If you’ve been meaning to register, but haven’t gotten around to it yet, CONGRATULATIONS on deciding to join us!!! 🙂 Now, go ahead & REGISTER, because the clock is ticking… Here’s that link again. http://www.SmartSEXYandSingleRetreat.com
If you are still undecided about whether or not you want to attend, I ask you these questions to help you make a decision in which you can feel confident. Whether you choose “Yes,” or “No” about coming to the Retreat.
If you do NOT join us at the Retreat on 11-8-14:
- Will you be doing something else during that time, that has the power & potential to move you forward in your Life, your Finances, your Self-Confidence & your Relationships with Quality Men? If the answer is not, “ABSOLUTELY YES!” Then, what excuses (otherwise known as reasons) are you allowing to hold you back from registering? How long will you allow yourself to be held hostage by these excuses/reasons?
- Do you have a different plan of action that you have already begun implementing that will move you toward your goal of a happy, loving relationship? Does this plan include a proven, step-by-step Guide AND a reliable Accountability partner who will tell you the truth in a spirit of Love, when you fall off, or when you are wrong? If the answer is not, “ABSOLUTELY YES!”Then, what excuses (a.k.a. reasons) are you allowing to hold you back from registering? How long will you allow yourself to be held hostage by these excuses/reasons?
- Will you utilize the funds you didn’t invest in your personal development via this Retreat, to invest in yourself via another proven Program, Coaching Session or Seminar? Or will you just spend it on something that won’t make a difference in your life AND you can’t even remember a month from now? Money is a TOOL, it’s neither good nor evil. How we choose to use the tools at our disposal will dictate the lives we build for ourselves. “Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.” Matt. 6:21
The Smart, S.E.X.Y. & Single Women’s Retreat is on Sat. November 8, 2014 from 10 am till 4 pm EST at the Piedmont Club in Winston-Salem, NC and I hope to see you there!
I’ve designed this daylong Retreat to help you learn from Smart, Women, Experts who can equip you with the knowledge & strategies to transform your Life, to stop the habits that may be standing in your way and start the practices that really work to make you more attractive to your SoulMate (and create a pretty Phenomenal Lifestyle™ for yourself in the process).
If you know that you’re ready to stop wondering “Where are all the GOOD MEN?” &/or “What am I doing wrong?,” then come on! What are you waiting for? Check out the Retreat details & Register while Tickets are still available.
I promise you, you won’t regret coming. I GUARANTEE it!
Registration is closing SOON, so don’t wait any longer! Grab your seat right now, while it’s fresh on your mind & seats are still available. Here’s that link again. http://www.SmartSEXYandSingleRetreat.com
We rarely regret the actions we take while walking by Faith, we frequently regret the things we could have done differently, but didn’t. Don’t let missing out on this Retreat, become something you regret.
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