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Dear Phenomenal Woman,

It seems like it should be so easy, doesn’t it? You register with one of those “marriage minded” dating sites or matchmaking services, put up a profile and BAM you’re connected with the love of your life, your SoulMate!

So, why isn’t it working for you? I promise, there’s DEFINITELY a better way.

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Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You’re concerned you are giving your “good years” away to men who don’t value you and don’t plan on marrying you (there’s an unspoken pressure weighing on you because you can hear the clock ticking even though you don’t want to admit it)


  • You’ve got your education, enjoy a successful career and have beautiful home; now what you really want is an amazing man of God to love you, make you laugh, be faithful, and pop the question already :-)


  • You want to be married and you don’t understand why it hasn’t happened for you yet (your relationships always go south; you’re starting to wonder “What’s wrong with me? What am I doing wrong?”)


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The common theme here is having an unmet desire for true LOVE and all the other benefits that come with a healthy, lifelong marriage to your SoulMate. The man that God hand chose to compliment you and the one for whom you are a perfect fit. I’m not talking about fairytales and unrealistic “happily ever after’s.” What I’m referring to is the fullness, richness and abundance that comes from a healthy partnership between spouses. It’s this very thing that creates a strong foundation upon which to raise children and build a family. And it all begins with “I Do.”



"The [Training Event] was awesome. Wende is an excellent presenter. I especially like her delivery, creativity & openness. It is refreshing to have seminars to address the needs of singleness! I will take the concepts & lessons you taught and develop Action Plans for my life. Empowerment starts with Action."–Retreat Participant

Relationships 101

If you’re like most people, you were never taught how to “be” in a successful relationship. And it’s even less likely that you learned how to attract your SoulMate and repel Frogs (that’s what I call cheaters, guys who won’t commit and other unsavory males). To add insult to injury, at this point you may not be able to tell a Frog from a King until you’ve already had your heart broken. It’s not your fault, many frogs are highly skilled at disguising their “froggish” ways and tricking you into trusting them and letting them into your heart, among other places.


Well that’s why I’m so excited to share with you what I’ve come up with- a simple, proven way to attract your SoulMate and create a Phenomenal Lifestyle™ while you’re still in your single season.

But first…

My Journey to Phenomenal LOVE



I always knew that I wanted to get married. From childhood, my mother taught me that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing.” She taught me that I was “a good thing.” So when I got married the month after I graduated from undergrad, I thought I was living a dream. Until, a few weeks later and my charming groom started showing his true colors and my dream became a nightmare.


That marriage was abusive, controlling and changed who I was for the worse. But, I know that God is able to use ALL things together for good. And that’s just what He did when He used that marriage to create my wonderful daughter. Not long after she was born, God released me from that awful marriage to a ‘frog in King’s clothing,’ which left me feeling like anything but “a good thing.”


So there I was, single again. Only this time I was in my early 20′s, and also someone’s mother. I knew that I needed to take time after my marriage was over to focus on my child and myself. After I’d waited over a year, what I considered a healthy amount of time, I began praying for God to allow me to remarry.


Fast forward several years. As I established my career, earned a graduate degree, and climbed the corporate ladder, I continued to pray that God would send me my husband. I’d been faithfully waiting & abstaining for what felt like forever and I was sooo READY to be married. I tried eHarmony and other online resources, I asked my friends if they knew of any good single men, I read books about relationships; I did everything I could think of to DO to help God answer my prayers a little quicker. But, all I would get was dead-end relationships with FROGS or “good guys” that just weren’t right for me.  All that time I wasted, spinning my wheels and looking for love in all the wrong places.

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Then, it finally happened!

After I acknowledged that the common denominator in my failed relationships was me, I decided to work with a Coach. That experience helped me to overcome my inner blocks to love & marriage. (I didn’t even realize that I had these blocks, so of course I couldn’t address them on my own.) I realized what I was doing wrong (including why I kept attracting & picking the wrong men), and my love life went from frustrating, and often lonely & non-existent to being blissfully married to an amazing, loving, supportive Man of God that I know for sure is my SoulMate!


I know that so many other women struggle with the same disappointments & relationship challenges that I faced during my single season. Just as I know that God allowed me to overcome my own challenges during my single season, and come out Victorious and In LOVE. I know that He has called me to help other women of faith to do the same, so they can experience a Phenomenal LOVE of their own. That’s what lead me to create the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ 30 Day Coaching Club. The same steps that I took to Create a Phenomenal Lifestyle™, Prepare for & attract my amazing husband, and Stop wasting precious time with frogs are the very steps that I cover in this transformational course.


Here is the Recipe to my SoulMate Attraction Factor™ Program:

Ditch Your Relationship Obstacles

Activate Your Inner Attraction

Navigate Your Outer Attraction

Celebrate Your X-Factor

Establish the Foundation for a Life-Long, Happy Marriage

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The 5 Steps in my system spell out D.A.N.C.E., because the dynamic between a male and female is like a lovely Dance. In nature, it’s often called the “mating dance.” When you know the steps to take and the moves to make, you can be very successful in experiencing a Phenomenal LOVE of your own.

It’s so important to me to help other women learn and apply what it took me over a decade to discover about love and relationships.


"I just wanted to say thank you, thank you!  Amazingly enough, I have started working on some of things we discussed, and I can already tell a difference in myself; others have noticed a difference too!!  Many Thanks!!!!"–Erica H., Retreat Participant


Here’s a peak at just some of what you can expect to learn:

Training Call 1 (March 25 Tuesday):

"Ditch Your Relationship Obstacles" *Identify your relationship patterns, so that they can no longer keep you off track *Learn what it means to be Sincerely Single, and how not doing so can keep your Mr. Right at bay. *Discover how you may be blocking the Spiritual Law of Flow, and how this will cause stagnation in your Love Life *My exact method to eliminate relationship saboteurs that will eat up your time and rarely result in a happy marriage, so you can focus on enjoying your life now and being truly READY when Mr. Right finds you *Decrease the time you spend in "relationships" that will NEVER result in a happy marriage

"Activate Your Inner Attraction" *How to finally rid yourself of the guilt, shame & embarrassment of your past mistakes, so you can move forward with the freedom & joy you desire *The most important practice a single woman hoping to be married MUST do so you can avoid a ton of unnecessary frustration and disappointment, including potential divorce *Establish a Relationship Success Mindset, so you can stop sabotaging your own efforts *Create your Ideal Man Chart (and no this is not the same stuff you came up with when you were in your 20's)


Training Call 2 (April 9 Wednesday):

"Navigate Outer Attraction" *Recognize the 10 types of Frogs and avoid wasting your precious time with them, or letting them play with your mind and break your heart *Identify Tolerations and other energy drains that will keep you frustrated and unhappy *Learn to trust your instincts & take action when you see "Red Flags" in the beginning *Discover how The Law of Receiving impacts your ability to attract the man of your dreams, not knowing this can add unnecessary time to your Journey to Love *Easy ways to stand out in a crowd & Increase your chances of getting noticed (in a good way), even if you're not a Beauty Queen


Training Call 3 (April 21 Monday):

"Celebrate Your X-Factor" *Simple tips to attract your SoulMate and have him begging for a commitment *Sure-fire strategies to fully own your worth & the value you bring to a relationship *Discover how Feminine Power & Strength combine with Authenticity & Vulnerability to set you apart as the Amazing, Phenomenal Woman that you are

"Establish the Foundation for Marriage" *The essential step most couples skip when considering marriage, doing so causes all sorts of frustrations and confusion during the marriage *Learn to 'Fight Fair,' so you don't cause irreparable damage when you get upset *Identify the myths about Marriage that can set you up for failure, and how to overcome them


Bonus Q&A Call with Spotlight Coaching (April 16 Wednesday):

Q&A and Spotlight Coaching – “Spotlight Coaching” enables you to benefit from on-the-spot coaching and mentoring from me regarding your specific situation and the areas that are causing you the most problems or challenges.

My coaching programs are powerfully transformative.butterfly coming from cocoon

The end of the 30 Day Coaching Club marks the beginning of a new chapter in your life.


So now you may be wondering, how do I get started? How am I going to get my hands on this amazing information & the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ Coaching Club experience?


Here’s how I’m going to deliver it to you.

When you Join the SAF Club, You Get:

  • 3 Training/Coaching Calls – Covering all 5 Steps that make up the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ D.A.N.C.E.
  • SoulMate Attraction Factor™ Handouts & Exercises, a playbook with worksheets, checklists, and other helpful resources to walk you through this process so you have the information you need at your fingertips
  • Audio Recordings of Each Training Call -So you can listen to the trainings and refresh your understanding whenever you want, you can keep the recordings forever. You’ll never have to worry in case you can’t make the call live.
  • 30 days of email access to expert coaching, training and mentoring from a High-end Certified Coach who is experienced in facilitating life changing breakthroughs for women & girls
  • Creation of your Customized Action Plan so you’re clear and focused on your next steps to attract your SoulMate and maximize your single season
  • And more!
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Plus these valuable BONUSES:

  • Q&A Call with Spotlight Coaching
  • Clearing the Way for Your SoulMate Checklist- Simple resource to help to stay on track to attract your SoulMate
  • Red Flags Checklist (50+ signs he may NOT be The One)

No doubt, you’re probably wondering what the investment is for this level of powerful transformation. Before I go there, I have a few questions for you.

What is it costing you for things to stay the same as they are right now?

How much more “retail therapy” can you afford?

How much is it worth for you to experience the LOVE, Happiness, Peace and Romance that come from being in a happy, healthy, loving relationship with a man that God has hand chosen for you? Because I’ve been there, I know that for me it’s priceless.


I’ve made this Coaching Club completely affordable to remove any barriers for every woman that truly wants to benefit from attending. You get everything I mentioned above for the extremely modest investment of $297.

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My Generous “MORE Than Your Money Back” Risk Free Guarantee

Satisfaction guaranteed


I stand behind my coaching & training and their ability to transform your life and your relationships by creating greater clarity, equipping you with necessary insight, practical tools, and empowering you to design and experience a Phenomenal Lifestyle™ for yourself.

I’m so confident that the information you’ll learn during this 30 Day Coaching Club will give you what you need to transform your relationship mindset and your life, that if by the end of the first week you feel I’m not delivering on what is promised on this webpage, you can choose to exit the club and ask for a full 100% REFUND, with no quibbling. I guarantee I will personally refund your money out of my own pocket.

VIP Day-Kina1a“I would first like to say thank you again for the wonderful experience of the VIP Day Saturday. Before I came, I have to admit I was skeptical about whether it would be beneficial. But, after having the whole VIP Day experience I must say it was certainly well worth the investment and the time. I was able to have some huge revelations and breakthroughs and I have had a sense of rejuvenation since I left! I started to work on the system you taught me, and it was a huge eye opener. Even after leaving, I'm still learning more about myself and continuing to have ah ha's.  I can definitely see room for improvement, and how implementing what you taught me will help me achieve my goals and make my life easier and happier. Now, I know I can do it, thanks to your coaching and the skills you taught me. I highly recommend it to other women. I'm already looking forward to continuing our coaching so I can keep up this momentum we created during our session. So again, thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU!”–Kina, Client


Yes, Wende- I’m ready to join the Coaching Club!

It’s my time to experience a fulfilling Phenomenal Lifestyle™

so I can transform my relationships and have more

happiness and LOVE in my life.”


I understand that by registering for the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ 30 Day Coaching Club, I’ll receive…

  • 3 Training/Coaching Calls – Covering all 5 Steps that make up the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ D.A.N.C.E.
  • SoulMate Attraction Factor™ Handouts & Exercises, a playbook with worksheets, checklists, and other helpful resources to walk me through this process so I have the information I need at my fingertips
  • Audio Recordings of Each Training Call - So I can listen to the trainings and refresh my understanding whenever I want, I can keep the recordings forever. I’ll never have to worry in case I can’t make the call live.
  • 30 days of email access to expert coaching, training and mentoring from a High-end Certified Coach who is experienced in facilitating life changing breakthroughs for women & girls
  • Creation of my Customized Action Plan so I’m clear and focused on my next steps to attract my SoulMate and maximize my single season
  • And more!


Plus these valuable BONUSES:

  • Q&A Call with Spotlight Coaching
  • Clearing the Way for Your SoulMate Checklist- Simple resource to help to stay on track to attract your SoulMate
  • Red Flags Checklist (50+ signs he may NOT be The One)


I understand that my investment in the SoulMate Attraction Factor™ 30 Day Coaching Club comes with your personal guarantee.


Registration is $297

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Please, rest assured that this online transaction is 100% secure and after your information is received, you’ll get an electronic receipt and instructions within just a few minutes. (If you have ANY problems, just contact my team at wende @

I can’t wait for you to step into YOUR Phenomenal greatness and put this system to work for you, so you can create the Love, Fulfillment and Happiness you need to attract your SoulMate in less time.


Love & Blessings,


Wende Sanders, MS, CC, CEG

“The Phenomenal Lifestyle™ Coach”


P.S. You’ve prayed for guidance & help with your love life. Now, take action on the guidance God is giving you. I look forward to helping you reach your relationship goals!

P.P.S. Doing what you know to do has gotten you where you are right now in your relationships. It’s time to do something different to experience a different result.