**ATTENTION: Single Ladies who want to Stop the Pattern of Disappointing Relationships, Start Attracting Your SoulMate & Enjoy Your Single Season in the Meantime!**

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Smart, S.E.X.Y  & Single Women’s Retreat 2014

(S.E.X.Y = Spiritual, Empowered, X-Factor, Your Best Self)

Secrets To Attracting Your SoulMate & Enjoying a Phenomenal Lifestyle™


July 25, 2014

From:  Wende Sanders, “The Phenomenal Lifestyle™ Coach”


Dear Phenomenal Woman,

It seems like it should be so easy, doesn’t it? You register with one of those “marriage minded” dating sites or matchmaking services, put up a profile and BAM you’re connected with the love of your life, your SoulMate!

So, why isn’t it working for you? I promise, there’s DEFINITELY a better way.


Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You’re tired of dating & playing games with men who don’t value you and don’t plan on marrying you (there’s an unspoken pressure weighing on you because you can hear the clock ticking even though you don’t want to admit it)

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  • You’ve got your education, enjoy a successful career and have a life you enjoy; now what you really want is an amazing man of God to love you, make you laugh, be faithful, and pop the question already


  • You want to be married, or in a great relationship and you don’t understand why it hasn’t happened for you yet (men always seem to disappear, or your relationships go south; you’re starting to wonder “Why me? What am I doing wrong?!”)


The common theme here is having an unmet desire for true LOVE and all the other benefits that come with a healthy, loving relationship with your SoulMate. The man that God hand chose to compliment you and the one for whom you are a perfect fit. I’m not talking about fairytales and an unrealistic “happily ever after.”


What I’m referring to is the fullness, richness and abundance that comes from Divine Connections. It’s this very thing that creates a strong foundation upon which to build a family. And it all begins with “I Do.”


Client-Marsha"Wende, you have no idea how much you have helped me! Through working with you, I was able to grieve my divorce and learned to value myself and my body. Wende's coaching was far more helpful than I expected. She kept me accountable, and I began to see some positive changes in my life! Working with her helped me uncover that I do want to get married again, which is a huge breakthrough for me. My biggest takeaway from her training is to value myself and my body more than I have been. I just wished I'd learned this lesson early on. Wende is a great coach!"–Marsha, Client & Program Participant

Relationships 101


If you’re like most people, you were never taught how to “be” in a successful relationship. And it’s even less likely that you learned how to attract your SoulMate and repel Frogs (that’s what I call cheaters, jerks, liars and other unsavory males). To add insult to injury, at this point you may not be able to tell a Frog from a King until you’ve already had your heart broken. It’s not your fault, many frogs are highly skilled at disguising their “froggish” ways and tricking you into trusting them and letting them into your heart, among other places.


Well that’s why I’m so excited to share with you what I’ve come up with- a simple, proven way to attract your SoulMate and create a Phenomenal Lifestyle™ while you’re still in your single season.

But first…

My Journey to True LOVE


IMG_0866I always knew that I wanted to get married. From childhood, my mother taught me that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing.” She taught me that I was “a good thing.” So when I got married the month after I graduated from undergrad, I thought I was living a dream. Until, a few weeks later and my charming groom started showing his true colors and my dream became a nightmare.


That marriage was abusive, controlling and changed who I was for the worse. But, I know that God is able to use ALL things together for good. And that’s just what He did when He used that marriage to create my wonderful daughter. Not long after she was born, God released me from that awful marriage to a ‘frog in King’s clothing,’ which left me feeling like anything but “a good thing.”


So there I was, single again. Only this time I was barely an adult, and also someone’s mother. I knew that I needed to take time after my marriage was over to focus on my child and myself. After I’d waited over a year, what I considered a healthy amount of time, I began praying for God to allow me to remarry.


Fast forward several years. As I established my career, earned a graduate degree, and climbed the corporate ladder, I continued to pray that God would send me my husband. I’d been faithfully waiting & abstaining for what felt like forever and I was sooo READY to be married. I tried eHarmony and other online resources, I asked my friends if IMG_8576they knew of any single, available men, I read books about relationships; I did everything I could think of to DO to “help God” answer my prayers a little quicker. But, all I would get was dead-end relationships with FROGS or “good guys” that just weren’t right for me.  All that time I wasted, spinning my wheels and looking for love in all the wrong places.


Then, it finally happened!  After I acknowledged that the common denominator in my failed relationships was me, and realized what I was doing wrong (including why I kept picking the wrong men), my love life went from frustrating, and often lonely & non-existent to being blissfully married to an amazing, loving, supportive Man of God that I know for sure is my SoulMate.

It’s so important to me to help other women learn and apply what it took me over a decade to discover about Men, Love & Relationships. I’ve designed the Smart, SEXY & Single Women’s Retreat to cover the most important aspects of your Personal Development & Relationship Education.

SmartSexySingleRetreat1"I just wanted to say thank you, thank you!  Amazingly enough, I have started working on some of things we discussed, and I can already tell a difference in myself; others have noticed a difference too!!  Many Thanks!!!!"–Erica H., Retreat Participant


3rd Annual Smart, S.E.X.Y  & Single Women’s Retreat

(S.E.X.Y = Spiritual, Empowered, X-Factor, Your Best Self)

Secrets To Attracting Your SoulMate & Enjoying a Phenomenal Lifestyle™


Here’s a peak at what you can expect to learn:

Session 1: "Love Your Life More, Starting Now!"

  • The most important practice a single woman hoping to be married MUST do so you can avoid a ton of unnecessary frustration and disappointment, including potential divorce
  • Easy Self-Care Routines that are sure to put you in the state of Love & Pleasure, neglecting these will ensure you remain in a highly unattractive state of overwhelm & stress
  • How to Eliminate Inner Conflict about Men, Relationships & Marriage, not knowing this WILL cause you to unknowingly Sabotage your own Relationships
  • Reduce the amount of time it takes to become marriage material

Session 2: "Eliminate the Relationship Obstacles that Stand Between You & True LOVE"

  • My exact method to eliminate relationship saboteurs that will eat up your time and rarely result in a happy marriage, so you can focus on enjoying your life now and being truly READY when Mr. Right finds you
  • How to recognize the 10 types of Frogs and avoid wasting your precious time with them, or letting them play with your mind and break your heart
  • Decrease the time you spend in “relationships” that will NEVER result in a happiness, or a successful marriage
  • How to finally rid yourself of the guilt, shame & embarrassment of your past mistakes, so you can move forward with the freedom & joy you desire
  • Learn to trust your instincts & take action when you see “Red Flags” in the beginning

Session 3: "Maximize Your ROI (Return On Investment)"

  • How to use Effective Body Language to signal that you Want Mr. Right to Approach YOU, the mistaken notion that your conversation begins when one of you says “Hi” is what keeps a ton of women from getting approached at all, and leads many to be approached by the Wrong Men
  • Easy ways to stand out in a crowd & Increase your chances of getting noticed (in a good way), even if you’re not a Beauty Queen
  • Fun Make-up Tips to Accentuate your BEST Features & Sky Rocket your Confidence

Session 4: "Celebrate your X-Factor, Be Unforgettable"

  • Simple tips to attract your SoulMate and have him longing for a commitment
  • Sure-fire strategies to fully own your worth & the value you bring to a relationship
  • Discover how Feminine Power & Strength combine with Authenticity & Vulnerability to set you apart as the Amazing, Phenomenal Woman that you are
  • How to communicate with Him in a way NO Other woman has, to let Him KNOW for Sure that YOU are The ONE

Q&A and Spotlight Coaching Session

“Spotlight Coaching” enables you to benefit from on-the-spot coaching and mentoring from me regarding your specific situation and the areas that are causing you the most problems or challenges.


Sondra Wright

40+ And Fabulous Author, Sondra Wright

Lee Aldridge

Financial Expert Lee Aldridge


PLUS, Guest Expert Speakers Addressing:


     “Smart Women’s Journey to Financial  Success” with Lee Aldridge (Silver Sponsor)

     “How NOT To Marry An Axe Murderer: Dating Saftey for The Modern Day Woman” with Sondra Wright (Author of 40+ And Fabulous and When Mr. Wright Comes In The Wrong Package)







"The retreat was awesome. Wende is an excellent presenter. I especially like her delivery, creativity & openness. It is refreshing to have seminars to address the needs of singleness! I will take the concepts & lessons you taught and develop Action Plans for my life. Empowerment starts with Action."–Retreat Participant


My retreats are powerful & transformative.

The end of the Retreat marks the beginning of a new chapter in your life.


So now you may be wondering, how do I get started? How am I going to get my hands on this amazing information & Retreat experience?

Well, here’s how I’m going to deliver it to you:

  • 1-Day Retreat Saturday November 8, 2014 from 10am-4pm, Piedmont Club in Winston-Salem, NC
  • Smart, S.E.X.Y & Single Women’s Retreat Materials, a playbook with worksheets, checklists, and other helpful resources to walk you through this process so you have the information you need at your fingertips
  • On-the-Spot Coaching & Mentoring during Q&A at the Retreat


When you join me at this Women’s Retreat, here’s what you’re going to walk away with:group-of-women-150x150

  • A day of expert coaching, training and mentoring from a High-end Certified Coach who is experienced in facilitating life changing breakthroughs for women & girls
  • Confidence that comes from knowing What Works & What Doesn’t Work to Attract High Quality, Marriage-Minded Men
  • Clear understanding of Warning Signs that indicate it’s time to Move On, stop wasting your time & risking your Heart
  • Renewed Hope & Certainty that True Love is searching for YOU, just as You are searching for True Love
  • And more!


Plus these valuable BONUSES:

  • **NEW**Embrace the Mindsets of Phenomenal Relationships with Men- A Wonderful tool that helps you easily adopt the proper Mindsets to Attract & Keep Phenomenal LOVE, not knowing this can leave you stuck in an endless cycle of irritation & confusion
  • **NEW**Super, Simple System to effectively manage your money & prepare for the future, whether or not it includes a man
  • **NEW**Flirting with Class Checklist- An easy guide to help you know how to invite your Mr. Right to pursue you
  • **NEW** Lunch is Included
  • 10 Marriage Myths Checklist- Common misconceptions about marriage that leave MOST newlyweds vulnerable to Divorce
  • Clearing the Way for Your SoulMate Checklist- A simple resource to help to stay on track to attract your SoulMate & Avoid common Relationship Obstacles
  • Private Pre-Retreat Google Hangout to get you started, before you arrive at the Retreat **ONLY for the FIRST 20 Women to Register at ANY Level**


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You can also receive the VIP Upgrade Experience:

  • You get EVERYTHING listed above, plus the following EXTRA Goodies
  • Priority VIP Seating - Get the best seats in the house and all the perks that come with them (Priceless)
  • Catered Lunch with Wende ($45 value)
  • Private group Q&A and Coaching ($100+ value)
  • Autographed Book - When Mr. Wright Comes In The Wrong Package ($10 value)
  • Fabulous Goodie Bag!
  • $50 Gift Certificate
  • 30 Day Follow-up Private 1-on-1, 30 min. Coaching Call- **ONLY for the FIRST 7 Women to Order VIP Tickets** ($149 Value)

Total VIP Value= $354


No doubt, you’re probably wondering what the investment is for this level of powerful transformation. Before I tell you, I have a few questions for you. What is it costing you for things to stay the same as they are right now? How much more “retail therapy” can you afford?

How much is it worth for you to experience the LOVE, Happiness, Peace and Romance that come from being in a happy, healthy, loving relationship with a man that God has hand chosen for you? Because I’ve been there, I know that for me & my Clients, it’s priceless.

I’ve made this event completely affordable to remove any barriers for every woman that truly wants to benefit from attending. You get everything I mentioned above for just $97.

Please DO NOT be fooled by the Low Ticket Price! This is a High-Level Training Event for Smart, Women who know the value of Personal Growth & Development, and are willing to invest in themselves to achieve their Goals faster & more easily.




My Generous “MORE Than Your Money Back” Risk Free Guarantee

Satisfaction guaranteed I stand behind my coaching & training and their ability to transform your life and your relationships by creating greater clarity, equipping you with necessary insight, practical tools, and empowering you to design and experience a Phenomenal Lifestyle™ for yourself. I’m so confident that the information you’ll learn during this Women’s Retreat will give you what you need to transform your relationship mindset and your life, that if by the end of the first break you feel I’m not delivering on what is promised on this webpage, you can choose to turn in your gifts & materials, exit, and ask for a full 100% REFUND, with no quibbling. I guarantee I will personally refund your money out of my own pocket. Please note, there are no refunds for being unable to attend the event. You can however, send someone else in your place to benefit from everything being taught, or apply the amount paid as a credit toward any other product or service I offer. Either way, you win. :-)


I understand that my investment in Smart, S.E.X.Y & Single Women’s Retreat comes with your personal guarantee.

Select the Risk-Free Option You Want Now, While Tickets Are Still Available

The Retreat Ticket is Just:

 $97 General Admission



The VIP Ticket is Just:

 $147 VIP Ticket




Please, rest assured that this online transaction is 100% secure and after your information is received, you’ll get an electronic receipt and instructions within just a few minutes. (If you have ANY problems, just contact my team at wende @ wendesanders.com.)

I can’t wait for you to step into YOUR Phenomenal greatness and put this system to work for you, so you can create the Love, Fulfillment and Happiness you need to attract your SoulMate in less time.


Love & Blessings,


Wende Sanders, MS, CC, CEG

“The Phenomenal Lifestyle™ Coach”


P.S. Please pray for guidance over whether one of these seats is supposed to be yours. Next, take action on it and secure your seat, right away. Then, pass the word to your girlfriends so they can attend and transform their Love lives too! Doing what you’re doing, has gotten you to where you are. IF you want to have something DIFFERENT., you must DO something DIFFERENT.  I look forward to seeing you all there!

P.P.S. This is not the run of the mill “Women’s Empowerment Event.” You don’t want to miss out on this Transformational Retreat, and then hear about it after the fact.


VIP Day-Kina1a“I would first like to say thank you again for the wonderful experience of the VIP Day Saturday. Before I came, I have to admit I was skeptical about whether it would be beneficial. But, after having the whole VIP Day experience I must say it was certainly well worth the investment and the time. I was able to have some huge revelations and breakthroughs and I have had a sense of rejuvenation since I left! I started to work on the system you taught me, and it was a huge eye opener. Even after leaving, I'm still learning more about myself and continuing to have ah ha's.  I can definitely see room for improvement, and how implementing what you taught me will help me achieve my goals and make my life easier and happier. Now, I know I can do it, thanks to your coaching and the skills you taught me. I highly recommend it to other women. I'm already looking forward to continuing our coaching so I can keep up this momentum we created during our session. So again, thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU!”–Kina, Client