Love Rule 10

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Wende Sanders, MS, CC is an Award-Winning Speaker, Relationship Coach, Author and the owner of a premier personal development company for success-minded women. She's a Certified Life and Relationship Coach that enjoys working with Clients to transform the quality of relationships they attract, so they can experience the deep LOVE and more fulfilling lives they want. Her relationship expertise and insight have helped thousands of women to improve their lives and their relationships while honoring their faith and values.


  1. Karim  May 3, 2013

    New to your blog (found it stalking my ex’s best frnedis blog… Sick I know). I am terrified that I have missed the boat. I’m 28 with 2 kids (same dad) in Utah. I’m basically screwed. I spent my early twenties going back and forth between two guys. I was always the other woman because they (and I let them) had girlfrnedis. They both met me when we were unattached and I informed them that I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend. They moved on to other girlfrnedis but still messed around with me. I met my kids father when I was 24 and ready to settle down. After 3 months we were pregnant. I didn’t know he was a drug addict who was abusive. After we split up, my ex who always had a girlfriend killed himself. He was a broken soul but I worry he was my soul mate. The other ex has a girlfriend and he still tries to cheat on her with me. I only work and go home in the thoughts that my kids need a present and good mom before I need a partner. I don’t think anyone will want to jump into this ready made family. I’m cautious too because I’m scared to let anyone near my kids. Basically I’m screwed and it makes me sad. I try to be ok with never getting married but I want more kids. I want an equal partner. I want a soul mate. For now my daughter and son will take up my whole heart until or if there is someone out there worth sharing it with.


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